Sunday, September 6, 2015

Use Haters To Drive You To Succeed

Everywhere you look – haters. With social media so abundant in today’s day and age, and allowing people to cross communicate around the world at such high speeds, you don’t have to look far to find keyboard warriors and negative criticism, and even hate. The truth is negative people will always exist. The trick is instead of allowing them to give you their negative energy and allowing it to affect you, turn it around and allow it to motivate you positively. Here is how to do so: Control your emotions Unfortunately, most haters were once people you could probably call a friend. For this reason, when they talk crap it can bring out some heavy emotions. You once trusted this person, so for them to turn around and use that trust against you, it’s easy to fall into the trap of allowing them to give you a negative mindset and feeling hurt. Instead of allowing them to win and trying to think of a way to retaliate, be gracious that you are so important to them that they feel the need